Mark Sanford

Of all the articles I have seen about the Gov. Mark Sanford story, I thought this one by Dave Burchett was the best.

http://online.worldmag.com/2009/06/29/the-slow-rot-of-sin/

Ben's Graduation

Ben graduated from High School Friday afternoon, June 19th in West Nyack, New York. What a wonderful day for him and a celebration of his achievement. He was part of a special education graduation class of nine students, all special in their own way.

The program foretold that it would be an emotional day. It was dedicated to two additional students who would have graduated but did not live to see the day.

As the students came in to Pomp and Circumstance, Ben was already emotional. Actually it was the only time he was outwardly emotional and the music must have triggered something in him. .

Ben was introduced as a student who transferred from Florida three years ago but was instantly liked by all who met him. Since the other students mostly grew up in the area we were so fortunate that Ben was instantly accepted and such a good fit in the program in Pearl River.

All students had an opportunity to say something as the microphone was passed at one part of the ceremony.

The first student read a statement about his own autism and love for music. He sang earlier with the chorus assembled from special need students from multiple schools in the county.

The second student was introduced as a “Walt Disney expert” and was well loved by the crowd having been in the school system since age five and very outgoing. One thing he said stuck with me. He said, “If you know me, you know I will always remember you.” The statement seemed so pure and genuine that I felt like he meant me too even though he didn’t know me. I thought of Ben who still cries about Nanny Page and Grandpa Nelson passing away. Who remembers even when kitchen appliances broke with sadness as symbols of the temporal nature of this life and as his own autistic book marks in the passage of time.

The next student was a handsome outgoing student introduced as the campus “ladies man”. He was a classmate and friend of Ben's. He said something like “he wished he had a girlfriend and that she was here”. The crowd roared and he laughed with us.

Next was Ben and he kept it simple and powerful. Ben said, “I love you Mom and Dad. I love you!” Sue and I both cried in our front row seats. I’m sorry to say I don’t remember much of the remaining five student’s comments. But whatever it was, it was worth listening to.

One of the other things that touched me was that the school custodians took up a collection to give the students each a cash gift. Something they do every year.

Newspaper Article about the ceremony from New York Lower Hudson Valley News

Jacob's despair

Have you ever noticed that faith seems to get stretched to what seems like its limits just before the Lord answers prayer?
I was reading in Genesis 42 about Jacob’s sons coming back to Canaan to pick up Benjamin to convince Pharoah’s right hand man that they were telling the truth.
If I put myself in Jacob’s shoes I’m a little stressed. His favorite son (not that having a favorite is a good idea) is dead, his 2nd oldest is in prison in Egypt (as good as dead) and they are asking to take his only living son by Rachel too. Jacob’s response is my response to even much less critical and ominous life issues. “Joseph didn’t come back, Simeon is gone, and now you want to take Benjamin too! Everything has been against me.” (Gen 42:31 TLB)
Fast forward three chapters and the news was so overwhelmingly good that Jacob had difficulty taking it in. “Joseph is alive,” they shouted to him. “And he is ruler over all the land of Egypt!” (Gen 45:26 TLB)

Eliphaz, Bildad and Zophar, M Div

I don't ever remember being very critical of Job’s three friends. I can't imagine not making the same mistake myself.
I mean, if you read the book of Job they were not ignorant of God and said some pretty marvelous and true things about God. And they were very good friends to Job. Scripture records that they sat with Job for a week without speaking a word (Job 2:11). I love the way the Living Bible puts it, “for they saw his suffering was too great for words.”
I guess they crossed the line when they put themselves in God’s place, later accusing Job for being punished for sin. They also relied on their own experience to make such judgments concerning the root cause of Job’s calamity (Job 4:9, 27).
One of the lessons to me is even that even with good intentions I need to be cautious in “advising” those I love about what they are going through and even slower to pretend I understand and know all that God is doing.
“This plan of mine is not what you would work out, neither are my thoughts the same as yours! For just as the heavens are higher than the earth, so are my ways higher than yours, and my thoughts higher than yours.” (Isaiah 55:8, 9 TLB)